Online Community + Group Coaching + Mini-Courses

A membership to help you let go of the guilt and self-judgment of parenting like your parents, and instead, build a better relationship with your child, from here on out.

Does this sound familiar…

“I don’t want my kids to be raised the same way I was raised.”

I feel so overwhelmed and it feels like my kid keeps testing me. Ugh. I feel like I no one talk to about this.

I hear my kids running around and screaming in the other room. I run over and yell “YAAAAAHHHH!” Their eyes get teary. Ugh. Instant regret. I wonder if my parents had to deal with this too.

Great, my child is crying because I lost my shit. I feel so guilty it’s eating me up. Yelling like this reminds me of how my parents used to yell at me when I was a kid. I hated it.

My mom used to get so frustrated with me that she would tell me “ese hombre te va llevar” if I wouldn’t listen to her in public. I don’t want to use fear to control my child.

I gotta find a better way than blaming my kid, because this is on me to be the change. I just don’t know how to break the cycle.

Imagine if...

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Imagine if... 〰️

What if you could break the frustrating cycles of guilt and self-judgment, and instead build a better relationship with your child, from here on out?

Imagine if

  • In your house it was normal to sit down with your kids, and talk about anything. You know… like you wish you could’ve done with your padres.

  • Could have the parenting skills but also a deeper knowing that you can become that calmer parent for your child. Parenting like this could feel as easy as making huevos con weenies in the morning.

  • Could be a calmer, centered parent who isn’t always triggered by any little thing your kids do.

  • You could look in the mirror and tell yourself “ I am not raising my child how my parents raised me. I am choosing to raise them differently.”

The Raíz Parenting Community is a Latine-led space created for first-generation cycle-breaking parents like you looking to heal and change the future of the family trees through support, learning, and communidad.

So who will be your guide on this journey?

Hola! That’s me, Jocelyn!

Anger is an emotion I know all too well. Being a first-generation American-Latina myself, growing up in a household where my parents’ go-to parenting tools were: fear and threats, anger played a big part in my upbringing. Unfortunately, I learned very quickly that my own emotions weren’t safe at home, let alone did my parents know how to deal with their own emotions. Trust me, I’ve heard plenty of threats with “chanclas” or “cintos”, especially when I was a “grosera” for standing up for myself.

Through my work and healing (e.g. therapy, reading, podcasts), I vowed to raise my future children in an emotionally safe family environment. I don’t ever want them to feel bad for speaking up or standing up for themselves. I am super grateful for the love my parents show me and understand why they chose to raise us with anger, however, I want to do better than they did for the generations to come!

Working with children and parents for over 5 years as a family therapist, I’ve had several parents come into my office asking “I don’t understand why I get so angry?” or “What am I doing wrong? I don’t know where to start fixing it! ” In my experience as a coach, I have learned that all of these parents have a deep desire to connect and be a safe space for their children, but they have one thing standing in their way: themselves.

I created this parenting membership to hold a safe space for first-generation cycle-breaking parents wanting to heal their family trees and rewrite their family stories for future generations. Como humanos, we are capable of growth, change, and healing.

I know you feel guilty, I know you feel self-judgment. You are done repeating those negative cycles. Together, let’s put an end to that, and get you started right now!

What other’s have to say!

  • “Jocelyn is the smart, solid, caring, wheels-always-turning leader you want right by your side through the most chaotic, confusing, and outright hurtful moments of raising another human.”

    -Dr. Heidi TenPas

When you join the Raíz communidad you gain access to:

Online Community + Group Coaching + Mini-Courses

  • Private Community Forum:

    So you can connect with other cycle-breaking parents in a safe non-judgmental space when finding solutions, trying solutions, and talking through solutions.

  • 2 Monthly LIVE Group Coaching Calls:

    Get support and relief from an expert in a safe space where you can ask questions, get advice, or share your stories without judgment.

  • Digital Library:

  • A library of curated trainings to help you navigate any difficult parenting situation that you may face.

BONUS! Be the first of the founding members to join the Raíz Parenting Community and get this one-time-offer price for $17 a month. It won’t be around for long and for only the price of a combo meal at your favorite fast food spot! A steal!

Find out if RAIZ is for you?

RAIZ Parenting Community is for you if:

  1. You want to raise your child differently than how your parents raised you. You are done being the “angry, scary” parent and ready to be the change your child needs.  

  2. You’re looking for a tight-knit, non-judgmental group of parents who are also learning, growing, and sanando their family trees from the “old school” generational cycles that keep getting passed down.

  3. You’re looking for a space to connect and share about your parenting journey with people who get it. Not just a hang-out with the primos who sometimes just don’t get it no matter how much you explain.

  4. You understand that healing and growth starts with you. You might be the first in your family to make this change for the generations to come.

RAIZ Parenting Community is not for you if:

  1. You are looking for a quick fix. This community is not going to solve every single problem you may have. Through applying yourself, you will find growth, connection, and understanding of your own emotions and your child’s.

  2. You aren’t ready to parent mindfully or for the cambio to come. This means if you aren’t ready to stop parenting with punishment/fear-based parenting tools. You will parent however you choose, but this is a space for parents who are ready to stop using their mama’s parenting toolbox and move forward in creating a safe emotional space for their families.

  3. You’re not open to “looking in the mirror” and aren’t ready to experience growth on a deeper level. This community, its content, and its support are built-in for the individual who is ready to take a step towards managing how anger shows up in their parent-child relationship.

  4. You aren’t ready to have the hard convos. Being a cycle breaker means that we are going to have hard conversations about topics like sexuality, race, status, safety, religion, boundaries, etc. It’s our duty as humans raising humans to model having these real conversations with our children.

Let’s take a closer look at what you get when you join Raíz Parenting Community!

RAIZ is a monthly membership that includes access to a Digital Library, Monthly Group Coaching calls, and a private community-led forum.

So, are you ready to learn the skills and take action to create a safer emotional space for your child? For only $17 (founding member price)a month, you can.

For this price of $17 (normally $27) a month, you will feel empowered and confident in your parenting skills, especially when it comes to managing big emotions. Gain deep connections in this community-led membership full of parents also just trying to figure out this whole parenting thing. Enter a non-judgmental coaching space, where your thoughts and feelings are safe and welcomed by myself and many others.

Pay in Full: Year-long membership

Includes:

  • 2 months FREE membership this year

  • Digital Library with audio and video courses.

  • Private Online Community Forum

  • 2 monthly LIVE Group Coaching calls.

ONE-TIME PAYMENT OF $170 ( normally $270 after founding member launch!)

Pay Month to Month: Monthly-Membership

Includes:

  • Digital Library with audio and video courses.

  • Private Online Community Forum

  • 2 monthly LIVE Group Coaching calls.

Each month's payment of $17 (normally $27 after founding member launch!)

100% money-back guarantee.

100% money-back guarantee.

30-day money-back guarantee.

Check out RAIZ!

When you join our membership and decide this is not the place for you, you’re welcome to cancel, and get your money back before the 30 days is up after your first payment.

*After canceling, you won’t get to keep any of the content inside the membership or access the community perks.

If you signed up for the full-year payment, you have 30 days after you sign up to check out Raiz Parenting Community and decide if it’s for you.

*30-day money-back guarantee TRIAL is only for the first trial period. If you decide to leave and come back at a later time, the trial will no longer apply.

What others are saying

“If you're looking to transform your parenting style and build a deeper, more positive connection with your children, I can’t recommend Raiz Parenting community enough. Jocelyn’s support and guidance will help you on every step of your journey.”

Lorin Tierney, LMFT

“Jocelyn is dedicated to helping her clients achieve their goals in therapy and provides them and their caregivers with gentle and compassionate guidance through their journeys.”

Dolores Arevalo, LCSW

 Still wondering if the Raíz Parenting Community is right for you?

You may be thinking a few things…

“I am worried I might not have the skills or knowledge to participate.”

It’s uncomfortable to feel like you don’t know what you're doing. You’re trying to figure it out as you go. There’s no expectation to be perfect or have it all figured out. The fact that you’re here, open to learning and improving yourself as a parent, says a lot already!

“I feel embarrassed and guilty about my actions and anger. I feel like I’m the only one.”

No one ever said I wanted to be seen as a “bad parent”. Especially when you admit that you’ve snapped at your child more than a couple of times. Okay, let’s be honest for a moment. We’re all human. You’re going to yell and lose your shit sometimes. But that’s why we’re all here. Here at RAIZ, you’re with parents who are also just trying to figure it out and the best parents they can be.

“I don’t think I have the time or energy right now to commit.”

Believe me, I get it! No one has the time or energy for a lot right now. But being in a struggling relationship with your kid is sucking the life and energy out of your time and day. When you start feeling better about the relationship with your child, you’ll start to feel more energized throughout the day.

“I’ve already tried different ways to better my relationship with my child, so what makes this different?”

That’s your strength. You’ve bought the books, the courses, you’ve watched the videos, the tik-toks…. You name it, you’ve done it. Why? Because you want to STOP repeating those negative cycles, and you want your child to view you as a safe space that they can come to for the rest of their lives. You’re here because you want to parent differently. You do NOT want to parent how your parents raised you, and you’re ready to break that cycle! You’re ready to heal those family tree roots so that future generations won’t have to heal from their childhoods.

Top 6 FAQs

  • This membership may not be for you if you are not ready to parent your child mindfully and intentionally. If you believe that using fear, shame, and physical force is the best way to control your child’s behaviors, then this will not be a fit for you.

  • Just as long as watching 3-4 entire TikToks or Reels in a row. Our mini-courses are no longer than 4-10 minutes of digestible content and actionable steps uploaded each month to the course room. You will also have access to our private community-led forum and virtual coaching calls too.

  • You are welcome to join and leave the Raíz Parenting Community as you please. We will miss you of course! You can cancel anytime from our account management page.

  • There are two payment options. You can sign up for a recurring monthly payment of $27 ($17 for founding members). OR you can sign up for a recurring yearly payment of $270 ($170 for founding members).

  • We meet on ZOOM every 3rd and 4th Friday of each month. A reminder Zoom link will be sent to your email. Check the group calendar or you can join directly from the website. Calls are 1 hour long, starting at 4PM- PST/ 7PM- EST. See you there!

    Can’t make it? Coaching Calls are recorded and can be found in the course room archives once uploaded.

  • You will have access to our entire digital course library as a mini-course is dropped every 1st of the month. Upon joining you may see some courses already there for you to get started on!

Ok! You’ve made it this far. VAMOS!

Join the Raíz Parenting Community (as a founding member) and start learning how to break those negative generational cycles so you can create a safer emotional space for your child while building a healthier, calmer home from here on out!